{"id":53009,"date":"2020-02-05T15:56:26","date_gmt":"2020-02-05T21:56:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tigermedianet.com\/?p=53009"},"modified":"2020-02-07T13:10:14","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T19:10:14","slug":"can-we-just-talk-raises-stalking-awareness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tigermedianet.com\/?p=53009","title":{"rendered":"\u201cCan We Just Talk?\u201d raises stalking awareness"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>BY CORIE LYNN<br>PHOTOS BY DALSY TURNER<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As customers settled into Breathe last Friday evening for chats with friends and cups of coffee, a group of students and community members gathered in the basement of the shop to discuss a serious topic.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Part of the \u201cCan We Just Talk?\u201d partnership the coffee shop hosts, Isaac Harold and Journey Elder of Options Domestic and Sexual Assault Services lead a presentation and conversation on stalking.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"790\" height=\"444\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dSS_FtOsaxo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhen a community talks about this more and they\u2019re more open,\u201d Elder said, \u201cwe find that people are able to connect through stories, and then once they see that this isn\u2019t just an isolated problem, this is big, this is something that deserves our attention, and that\u2019s how change happens.\u201d<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because of this, she and Harold shared videos with the group, describing the forms stalking can take, what to do if one is being stalked and personal stories of stalking survivors.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to Harold, stalking can occur alongside domestic violence, but can come from strangers as well. In this case, it can be difficult to prove a case of stalking. For this reason, he, Elder and the videoes outlined the importance of victims documenting evidence such as keeping screenshots or a notebook of occurrences.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After hearing firsthand accounts as well as statistics, attendees discussed why technology isn\u2019t the culprit in cases of online stalking, the importance of how communities treat cases of stalking and why a victim might not go to the police.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"3872\" height=\"2592\" data-attachment-id=\"53010\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/tigermedianet.com\/?attachment_id=53010\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tigermedianet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/CanWeJustTalkOptions20201.jpg?fit=3872%2C2592&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"3872,2592\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" 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